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lovingmother29   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

 in response to montedreams...   as I've always been told- 'it is what it is' ;)
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lovingmother29   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

even this is depressing... I haven't been on this site for very long but wow, this is a sad place to visit! Granted, I need help, that's why I came here. But, not everyone here is here to take advantage or to argue. It has taken me alot- and I mean ALOT to ask for help online. I never thought I would EVER be in a position to ask for help! I have always been the one to help others. I worked in a church for a few years and we never cared if we were helping people that believed or didn't believe. We were helping mankind. I personally adopted 3 families on my own 4 years ago for Christmas and I never thought to ask what their faith was. I only told them what I did for a living and let them know that I cared. Now, 4 years later, I'm in a position to ask for help. I have felt like a dog with my tail between my legs and it does honestly hurt for help. So... I found this site. I was able to vent, cry and ask for what was needed. In the mean time however, I come back and read some heartbreaking stories of people that I wish I could help- and then there's the arguing and putting people down on here. And it's sad! It really is! It's a very depressed state that alot of us are in to ask for help. It feels like a very lonely place alot of the time. And to come on here and read drama... It stinks. Whether you are here to ask for help or for the few of you that are here to actually help, I really hope that this can stop. Love people. It doesn't matter your race, your background, your religion, you ethnicity... Just love people. Offer support if you're able. Don't ask for help if you honestly don't need it. Love people. There's my rant for the night. God bless or simply take care, it's your choice. Just love and be kind. Good night :)
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lovingmother29   in reply to butterfly22   on

free money to help pay bills

 in response to getfreedental...   hello getfreedental, thank you so much for your response! You are very sweet with incredibly kind words. And you are exactly right, God will guide everyone through rough times! I wasn't always a believer but was saved about 7 years ago now. My son and I were baptized shortly after that and I became a Parish Administrator at the same church. As we were looking for a Minister, I actually did a few Homilies on Sunday's so that services would continue at our small church. Unfortunately I moved away from that area when I got pregnant but still keep up with the members there. After my youngest son was born, I fell into an incredibly deep depression with the thought of him being disabled and his father walking out on us. It was baaaaaad. And one night, I started going over some of my old paperwork from the church and just started crying. God isn't going to give me more than I can handle! And my mindset on my entire situation changed that night. I'm comfortable with my relationship with God and I know he will somehow guide me through this rough time also. I have definitely exhausted my possibilities for help... It hurts knowing that in less than 2 weeks, I don't know where the boys and I will live. Ohhh... The child support situation. Ugh! Don't even know where to start on that one! lol My oldest sons father paid $300 in November- that's the only payment we have received in over a year. He likes to hide from the Friend of the Court. He has had numerous bench warrants and his license suspended for not paying child support. I just sent another letter last month asking the judge to review our case again. Pretty sure he's tired of hearing from me! lol My youngest sons father bought a pack of diapers in October and that's all we have received there. Everything is a court battle with him. He's still trying to remove his parental rights and fighting having to pay child support. We have court again next month but he has become sooooo good at 'losing' his job right before court and saying he can't pay so they take it easy on him. He really knows how to work the system apparently! As of right now, $2000 would take care of everything. But... Anything would obviously help. Thank you for your concern and thanks for letting me vent :) Hope things are good your way and God Bless!
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lovingmother29   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

ohhhh what a day!! My youngest son (who is disabled) had appts all day and is still up fussing and in pain. Poor lil guy! He can't sleep and I can't either. Too much stress lately... Ugh.
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lovingmother29   in reply to SysBot   on

What's on your heart and mind today?

I really wish that I wasn't in the position I'm in because from all the posts on here, some sooooo touching... It would feel so nice to help some (most) of you out. Thank you so much to all of you on here, either needing or helping. Not only makes me realize that I'm not alone (with the needing) but showing me where I'd like to be (with the helping). Be loving forever :) look in the mirror, because no matter what side you're on- you're amazing!
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lovingmother29   in reply to butterfly22   on

free money to help pay bills

I have never been one to ask for help but I figured at this point, I have no other choice. I am a single mother of two beautiful children. My oldest son is almost 9 now. When I finally left his father, my husband, after a very violent marriage, my son was still very young and I decided I was better off single. Four years later, I thought I had found the man of my dreams, we were engaged and I got pregnant. We were soooo happy! When my youngest son (now 14 months) was born, he was very disabled.
At birth, he was only 4 pounds, had severe issues with his hands and facial deformities. We found out shortly after that he was also completely deaf. And then, my perfect life turned upside down. This 'perfect man' left us shortly after our son was born saying that he couldn't handle having a disabled child. We lived in a house under his name and he took our vehicle. So my boys and I had to find an apartment and a vehicle while dealing with being a new mother to a child that had so many special needs. I've tried... I have tried soooo hard! We've drove around junker cars, lived in a horrible apartment building- but we had each other. After my last car died on me, I had to use all the money I had to find something different. It wound up to where I was late on my rent payment and next thing I knew, we were very quickly evicted. I'm subleasing an apartment now but it runs out the end of this month. I still haven't been able to afford putting insurance on my car so we rely on public transportation. And I'm soooo thankful that is available! I do receive some disability assistance for my son and that's basically used up on getting to his numerous weekly appts. I am unable to work right now because taking care of my youngest is a full time job. We also receive some public assistance for food and WIC. Unfortunately, neither one of my sons fathers have paid child support in over 5 months now. I am desperately looking for help to get into a new place. A security deposit and one or possibly even two months rent just so that I can get back on my feet and get insurance on my car. After a small break, I know that I would be fine. I went to the Session at my church but unfortunately, our church isn't doing so well right now as we just had to hire a new Minister. So they were unable to help at this point. I have went through every possible outlet here as far as Salvation Army, other churches, United Way... With no luck. I understand it's a hard time for everyone right now so there hasn't been any funding in this area. Please help if you are able. Thank you so much and God Bless. My email is luckysteph18@yahoo
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